
It is estimated that between 5% and 8% of the population has AD/HD and that a minimum of 50% to 70% of children with AD/HD will experience significant problems as adults.
— ADDinsights
ADDinsight’s AD/HD Coaching
"7 Most Frequently Asked Questions about ADHD Coaching"
When a person with ADHD contacts me to discuss the possibility of entering into a coaching relationship, they typically ask a lot of questions about what coaching is all about and what they can expect from the relationship. Are you considering the possibility of hiring an ADHD coach? Then let me share with you the information I provide to my prospective clients.
What is ADHD Coaching?
ADHD Coaching is a partnership between you and your coach in which
the coach helps you identify:
- What is getting in the way of my fulfillment?
- How can I use my strengths to be more effective and successful
in the various domains of my life?
The coach does this by asking powerful questions that help you
get to the bottom of what is really creating difficulties in your
life. Once these "blocks" are identified, your coach
helps you develop the strategies necessary to effectively compensate
or overcome them. Coaching always delivers results if the coach
is a well trained and certified professional, the match between
you and your coach is a good one, you make do the work and don't
quit prematurely.
How does coaching work?
At the beginning of the coaching relationship, the coach takes
time to get to know you and the way you learn and communicate
as well as your strengths and limitations and the typical ways
you approach tasks, projects, and relationships. For example:
do you tend to plan ahead or fly by the seat of your pants? The
coach will help you articulate your goals for coaching and develop
a structured plan for the two of you. You and your coach will
select proven strategies for successfully addressing the habits
and behaviors that may be holding you back from fulfilling your
life's purpose. Best of all, your coach will help you stay on
track as you begin making changes in your personal and professional
life.
How long does it take before I get results?
Most people experience small, incremental improvements almost
immediately. But making permanent, long-term changes in your life
will take some time. The longer you engage with a coach, the more
you will get from the experience. Once you identify the goals
you want to accomplish, you and your coach can create a time frame
for reaching them. But remember, this time frame can only serve
as a guide. It may take you longer, or less time, to achieve your
specific goals depending upon your unique makeup and motivation,
and those endless unplanned occurrences that happen on a daily
and weekly basis.
What are coaching sessions like?
Every coach will vary with the way they run their coaching sessions.
During a typical session, you will check in with your coach around
how you are feeling and share any concerns that are occupying
your mind. Next, you will report to your coach on progress made
on your commitments between sessions. Your coach will acknowledge
your progress and give you the opportunity to share whatever prevented
you from taking a particular action and to identify steps for
moving forward during the next week. The coaching session gives
you and your coach an opportunity to gain valuable insights and
remove barriers to success. Then it's time to recap the session,
summarize your new commitments to take action, and make the next
appointment.
What is the difference between an ADHD Coach and a regular Life
Coach?
Life coaches typically know and understand the needs of the mainstream
adult population. For some life coaches it can be difficult to
understand the ADHD mind and accompanying behaviors. For this
reason, people with ADHD often prefer working with an ADHD coach
who understands their issues and challenges. Many ADHD coaches
have ADHD themselves and can pass on what they have learned to
others with ADHD. ADHD Coaches have a whole set of methods and
techniques especially suited to with the needs of ADHD clients.
They understand the brain, the underlying neurology, the executive
function issues, and the specific types of behavior changes and
organizational techniques that people with ADHD need to increase
their productivity. Many ADHD Coaches start by completing life
coach training requirements and then go on to earn their certification
in ADHD coaching.
How do I find an ADHD coach?
The best way to find an ADHD coach is either through word of mouth
or visiting a reputable clinic or center like the Hallowell Center.
This will take some of the guess work out of the search but it
is important to remember that you still are looking for a good
match. Don't be shy in staying with the search until you find
a coach who feels right for you. In other words, trust your gut.
Other ways to find coaches are to go on line and look for ADHD
web sites for coaching organizations that have coaching profiles
of their members. You can also access the brand ADHD Coach certifying
body called: The Institute for the Advancement of ADHD Coaching,
or the IAAC at: www.adhdcoachinstitute.org.
The IAAC is responsible for certifying ADHD Coaches world wide
and has stringent requirements and standards that all coaches
must meet to be certified. In the coming years more and more coaches
will have the opportunity to apply for IAAC certification on 2
levels: Senior Level: Senior Certified ADHD Coach (SCAC) and Professional
Level: Certified ADHD Coach (CAC). Most importantly: always check
credentials to make sure you are hiring a qualified person.
What can I expect to get from a coaching relationship?
You can expect to be:
- Listened to with 100 % of your coach's attention
- Treated respectfully, ethically and fairly at all times
- Asked powerful and empowering questions that go immediately
to the heart of the matter
- Presented with opportunities to create structures that will
keep you on track and accountable to your commitments
- Offered a positive and upbeat coaching environment.
Also, a competent ADHD Coach will be able to work with you to
address all of your executive function and organizational issues,
including but not limited to:
- Procrastination
- Time management
- Paper management and clutter
- Setting and following schedules
- Impulsivity in action or speech
- Beginning and following through on tasks and projects
- How to approach complicated tasks and break them down into sequenced
steps or chunks
- Better ways to communicate to get the right results
- The moods and beliefs that impact your success
In summary, you can count on your coach to work in all the domains
of your life including: self care, finances, marriage and family,
personal and professional relationships, career or job, and physical,
mental and spiritual health/well being.
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